I said I was struggling

It really does all come down to you're confidence level, the more confident you are the more your ego enlarges.


That's when you say things you were thinking but knew you shouldn't say but it just came out, and then you end up apologising cos you feel terrible (and so you should, you're not meant to say those things), where am I going with this.....I dunno haha no really it's a fine line between being confident and being egotistical.....and that's what I'm struggling with.


So, my solution is I'm making the effort to either say something nice about at least one person a day.....or I'm trying to smile to at least one person a day. Do you realise the effect a smile can have on someone, it really is like they say....contagious but once you do they feel better and so do you, really I think this world could benefit from more smiles and more positiveness.


It absolutely amazes me how for example a beautiful women could be told every complement under the sun and she will brush it off you know not think much of it....think they are just being nice but then you have one person say something negative and she takes it on board completely....honestly the effect of positive and negative comments, is just....wow. You know it's ok to accept some of those good complements. It doesn't make you selfish or up yourself..........